Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Merry Christmas!!♥

Merry Christmas to all my dear friends from around the world, dear friends that I know personally, and to my wonderful family!! I hope you all have a blessed Christmas!!♥

Christmas Poem

Christmas, a time of giving.
A time to gather together
With dear family and friends
A time of joy and laughter
Where the day never ends

A time to think and pray
For those in need
A time to be thankful
For all the blessings we recieve

But more importantly
A time to thank the Lord
For what He has done
His one and only Son
Dying on the cross for us
The victory being won

©Alysia Maria
2014/All Rights Reserved

Saturday, November 1, 2014

Band/Artist Recommendations!!♥

Hey everyone! Today I have decided to give shout outs to bands/artists that I believe are wonderful to listen to and inspirational examples in their walk with Christ!

Monday, August 4, 2014

The Importance of Modesty

I've gotten so inspired the other day that I decided to interview some of my dear friends in Christ to share their thoughts on how important and beautiful Modesty is.
Hope you are blessed! :)

~What is your definition of Modesty?

Zach: "Presenting oneself in a way that does not attract undue attention. Seeking to be pure before God and inspire purity in others, both in thought and action. Living a lifestyle that points to God and away from ourselves."

Karen: "Not wearing clothing or accessories that draw attention to yourself for an ungodly reason. Sometimes dressing modestly can bring attention when we are out in the world...but that is being obedient to God and can be a testimony."

James: "Shorts not short shorts. Jeans not yoga pants. Can wear at home just not in public. No cleavage showing shirts. Not a bunch of makeup making them look like a clown.
Attitude: not being sensual. Clean language, manners, and integrity."

Eric: "Modesty is being quietly confident. It's knowing you're good enough that you don't have to put yourself out there."

Rameez (@StewardofJesus): "Dressing in such a way that you do not cause others to have impure thoughts by revealing your body or even the outline."

Allen: "First of all, I believe modesty applies equally to guys and girls. I also believe it's about a lot more than just how much of ourselves we do or don't cover up. It definitely includes not dressing too scantily. But modesty is also about not being boastful, provocative, or inappropriate in any of our actions or speech. It's about humility. Humility before God and toward other people. It's about valuing substance over appearance and about not putting too much emphasis on our accomplishments or our blessings, realizing that all those things are gifts from God. It's about being more interested in living and giving generously than in building up ourselves by building up possessions or a reputation."

Monica: "Respecting yourself and your body enough to know you don't need to show so much skin to get attention."

Rita: "The first word that comes to mind is "Ladylike"...then "respectful"...I think that would cover manner of dress as well as the way we carry ourselves. If your daddy or your grandpa would fuss at a certain type of clothing you probably would be wise to respect their opinion. I would say we should dress in ways that show our self respect as well as ways to cause the respect of others. I truly believe that some of the modern very short dresses, skirts, and low cut tops are not modest, even tho they are in fashion and most girls dress that way."

Sylvia Liani: "Modesty is the quality of a person’s private being. This can be discerned in the manner of ones style of dress or behavior. It most often refers to ones form of dress or life style in general. Modesty comes in many forms. It can be in our manner of dressing. In the things we talk about or don’t talk about. Often the lack of it is a cry for attention. To be paid attention to by others is a boost to a fragile ego. Therefore it is often accompanied by the display of a persons body. In a way that it excessively emphasizes her or his sexual attributes. Modesty has benefits and values that extend far beyond an attempt to stand out in the eyes of the opposite sex. It refrains from indulging in anything that might harm its reputation. Attract the opposite sex at the wrong time and for the wrong reason. It has protective benefits that will enhance ones life in ways that nothing else can. Modesty is a very valuable virtue. If you have it don’t lose it. If you don’t have it develop it. It will take you far in this life. And keep your heart from a heap of hurt."

Jerry Kay: "Higher standards."

~What is your definition of Immodesty?

Zach: "Presenting oneself in a way that attracts undue attention. Not seeking to be pure before God or inspire purity in others, either in thought or action. Living a lifestyle that points away from God and towards ourselves."

Karen: "Wearing clothing that are revealing or draw attention to our bodies."

James: "Pretty much the opposite. Wearing short shorts, wearing yoga pants, having cleavage showing shirts, and having a bunch of makeup on their face.
Attitude: Being sensual, dirty language, no manners, and no integrity."

Eric: "Immodesty is being loudly insecure. The reason I say that is because immodest people feel a need to put themselves out there to make themselves to stand out. They feel like they need to put themselves out there in some way, shape, or form to get an unfair advantage over others."

Rameez (@StewardofJesus): "Dressing in a way that reveals your body too much or in a provocative lustful manner."

Monica: "Not being able to respect your body. I think it comes from not knowing your worth in Christ and feeling the need to show more of yourself than you should."

Rita: "Suggestive ways of acting or dressing and having a rebellious attitude that say I can dress or act anyway I want to."

Jerry Kay: "Low self esteem - One in dire need of attention."

~How do you feel when you see girls dressing Immodest?

Zach: "I think about my reaction. "Will I stare or glance or will I look the other way?" I try to always choose to not look upon that which would incite lustful thoughts. But being human I sometimes fail. I try to give grace towards the person, as they may not know that they are dressing immodestly, and may not understand how the male mind works."

Karen: "I feel sad for them. They like the attention they get but this attention is not "good" attention. It is lust. And lust is ungodly and immoral. Dressing like this is degrading oneself and shows that they do not have respect for themselves."

James: "It depends on age. I don't want to see girls under 15 wearing yoga pants and short shorts. Too young for it especially. I just don't really want to be around them. It just makes me feel that they are too much into themselves."

Eric: "I feel like it's unnecessary. It's heartbreaking. These girls FEEL like they have to dress like this because they want guys to notice them, and they go to great links to make sure that guys notice them and not the other girls.

They don't feel like they're good enough to do it on their own. They lack the confidence to be modest. In doing so they're getting the guys attention, but it's the wrong kind of attention. It's not the kind of attention they really want deep down inside."

Rameez (@StewardofJesus): "I feel really sorry for her and all the guys that would be engulfed in lustful thoughts."

Allen: "I feel equally bad when I see guys or girls dressing immodestly, whether they choose not to wear enough clothes or seem to choose clothes just to prove how much they can spend on them."

Monica: "Very saddened. It's just sad to see girls not respecting their body enough to feel the need to dress that way."

Rita: "I feel they are unlearned."

Jerry Kay: "Neanderthal and unstable."

~How do you feel when you see girls dressing Modest?

Zach: "I rarely think about that if I'm being honest because they do not draw attention to themselves. They are not attention seeking. They exude respectability. The emphasis is not on their appearance, although it does not hide the fact that the woman is beautiful."

Karen: "Happy that they are confident enough in themselves that they don't feel the need to dress immodestly to get attention."

James: "I find them easier to talk to. And see that they are more likely to be focused on their education and career than trying to be a magnet for the wrong things."

Eric: "I feel good seeing a girl modestly dressed! My wife has always dressed modestly, even before we started dating. It's that quiet confidence that I found attractive. She didn't need to dress trashing to get my attention. Her attitude and personality was enough to win me over. Those two things are what makes a women truly stand out."

Rameez (@StewardofJesus): "I feel happy to know that a girl chooses to respect her body which is the temple of God."

Allen: "I see dressing and behaving in a modest manner as signs of self-respect and true respect toward others. They're two of the most important qualities that I look for in the people I choose to be around."

Monica: "It makes me really think that they know who they are. They know their worth and they don't need to "show some skin" to get attention, but rather they hold themselves confidently in the beauty on the inside and not just how they look on the outside."

Rita: "I think it's sweet and ladylike."

Jerry Kay: "A warm feeling of self respect."

~Is there anything you would like to say to those who dress promiscuously? If so, what would you say?

Zach: "You may or may not know how you affect men's thoughts, but you can choose to dress in a way that will help your brothers and not hinder them."

Karen: "You will only attract those who lust after you...not those who truly care about you."

James: "You sure wouldn't want to see guys in yoga pants and short shorts. That's just nasty! lol!"

Eric: "You don't need to do this. I don't know if you know this or not, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with you! You're funny. You're beautiful. You've got an awesome personality! You don't need to dress provocatively to get people's attention. You are a wonderful human being. Be the lady God created you to be, not what the world tells you to be."

Rameez (@StewardofJesus): "Dressing immodestly might appear to be fashionable and stylish but it is not. It would just draw the wrong attention to yourself. Dressing modestly may seem like you are hiding your body but you are actually revealing your dignity."

Allen: "I think dressing provocatively encourages people to value us - and others - primarily for what's on the outside. Even if we're comfortable with our bodies and think we're okay with that, many people aren't. Many people, regardless of how beautiful they are on the inside or the outside, aren't satisfied with their appearance. They may resort to dangerous or destructive means to compensate for that. Or they may feel hopelessly lost in a world that places so much emphasis on how people look. We can often contribute to creating that kind of culture without even realizing it. Your worth is more than just how you look...and so is theirs."

Monica: "True beauty really comes from the inside, and not by how much skin you show."

Rita: "I might give some advice of a better way. If it were not well received I might say "You might attract attention, but you will soon discover it will be the hurtful kind."

Jerry Kay: "The attention your getting isn't the kind that's lasting."

~What advice or tips do you have to help girls be less promiscuous?

Zach: "Ask a man you trust in your life to advise you on what draws the male eye. Women don't always know what provokes lust in men, as we do not think the same. Aim to dress in a way that will not cause a man to stumble."

Karen: "You can still dress fashionably without revealing your body in any way."

James: "You need Jesus. For reals though. Live for Him not the World."

Eric: "Take your Dad, grandfather, an uncle you trust, or older brother to go clothes shopping with you to help hold you accountable. If you don't have any male relatives in your life, then take a good, Godly, grounded female to help hold you accountable in how you dress. Let them judge if you have too much showing."

Rameez (@StewardofJesus): "If you have to force yourself to put on the clothing, it may be immodest.
If it outlines your private parts, it is immodest.
If someone looks at a body part before the look at you, it's probably not modest.
A bikini is NOT modest.
If it reveals your thighs midway it is immodest."

Monica: "Realizing that the less skin you show, the more attention it brings to who you truly are on the inside."

Rita: "Pray and ask for the Lord's help."

Jerry Kay: "You don't have to use your sexuality to prove your womanhood."

~Do you feel desensitized by the sexual exploitation we see around us everyday?

Zach: "Totally. 100%. It's everywhere. It's reached the point of critical mass. Still, there is always the opportunity for the church body to be a safe haven from the pollution of the world. But to do that, we all must examine ourselves."

Karen: "Absolutely, it's everywhere...magazines, TV, movies, web pages, twitter, Facebook, billboards, advertising...we see it over and over and we become used to it."

James: "Yes, the physical body gets it's urges, the mental making it harder, while the spiritual one is trying to hold back those urges and think purely."

Eric: "I think society as a whole is desensitized by the sexual exploitation. Hollywood, the music industry, and the rest of the world keep pushing year by year what's acceptable and what's not acceptable. What they're pushing this year is much worse than what they pushed last year, and now what they pushed last year doesn't look so bad, now. We're all guilty of being desensitized."

Rameez (@StewardofJesus): "I feel rather concerned."

Allen: "Absolutely. I'm afraid we're all more affected by this than we even realize. I also think believers have a responsibility to set ourselves apart from it. To try and protect ourselves from the harmful effects of this trend. And to help shield others from it as well. To show them that not everyone bases the worth of a person solely on their outward "attractiveness." To love them more like Christ loves them."

Monica: "Very much."

Rita: "I feel it's very bad for the youth. Children are encouraged to seek a love life before they've ever learned to love themselves."

Jerry Kay: "Very much so, it seems as though some people want to bring the human race down to a level below what we are capable of achieving.

That is accomplished by appealing to the animal nature in the opposite sex..."

~How is Modesty attractive?

Zach: "Immodesty attracts lustful people. And on the flip side, modesty attracts those who can appreciate the whole person. You will attract someone who cares more about godliness than random sex appeal. It is in effect, a way of opening the door for God to let the right person in."

Karen: "When someone is dressed modestly they shine thru. Their personality, smile, eyes, etc are what people see. They are seen for who they really are and not just as an object."

James: "It shows that the person has respect for themselves."

Eric: "Like I stated earlier, it displays a quiet confidence. It draws attention to her attitude, personality, and brains, which is where the really attractive qualities are found."

Rameez (@StewardofJesus): "It reveals your dignity. Decent guys love when women respect themselves and their bodies."

Monica: "It focuses on the beauty inward instead of just your outward beauty."

Rita: "It looks more like purity and wisdom."

Jerry Kay: "From a mans point of view...When we see a modest woman/man, we know this person isn't trying to use her/his physical abilities to impress me...and that appeals to my higher senses."

~Do you respect a girl who dresses Modestly?

Zach: "Tremendously. Modesty commands respect. Immodesty draws attention through cheap means. A modest person places value on herself."

Karen: "Absolutely."

James: "Yes."

Eric: "Yes, because she's confident in who she is on the inside. She doesn't have to put herself out there: She places herself at a higher value, and won't do anything to cheapen it."

Rameez (@StewardofJesus): "Yes always, I respect all women. I am just really concerned when I see immodesty."

Monica: "I do. It shows confidence and self respect."

Rita: "Yes."

Jerry Kay: "Very much so."

~Is Modesty important to you? Why or Why not?

Zach: "It is very important because the Bible addresses it. And personal experience shows that it effects those around us. It is also important because it reflects the values of a person."

Karen: "Yes. Because I love The Lord, I don't want to make others sin thru lusting, and I feel good enough about myself that I don't need "fake" attention."

James: "Yes, sure wouldn't want a showy wife! lol!"

Eric: "It is important to me. Jesus said that if we look at another woman and lust after her in our heart that we've already committed adultery. It starts with a look. When women are dressed immodestly it puts us men in danger because we're tempted to look and lust. Life is hard enough. I don't need more temptation heaped upon me! LOL!!"

Rameez (@StewardofJesus): "Yes because it is endorsed in the scriptures and also promotes respect for oneself both male and female. Men also need to be modest."

Monica: "It is because I respect myself to know I don't need to show a lot of skin to get attention, or to fit-in. I don't want to be a stumbling block to the Godly men in my life."

Rita: "Yes, we need to make our world a better place with righteousness."

Jerry Kay: "Yes...It is important to this man not only because of religious views, but the stability it represents."

~Anymore thoughts and/or advice to share on this subject?

Zach: "First, modesty entails more than not dressing provocatively. 1 Timothy 2:9 says "women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire,". It speaks of not presenting oneself in a way that draws attention, and excessive adornment through accessories or jewelry can fit this description. "Dressing to impress" is not biblical.

Secondly, men don't get a free pass. For example, I personally decided not to go shirtless in public unless necessary, even when swimming. That is my personal conviction and not something I hold others to. But, men should think about their responsibility too. Are you wearing a shirt that is 3 sizes too small for the sake of highlighting your build? Guys are guilty of these things too and should search their hearts before God about how they present themselves."

Karen: "Care about yourself. You are more precious than the evilness of lust."

Rameez (@StewardofJesus): "I believe the media has a lot of negative influence with the breakdown of modesty. Dressing modestly does not mean you lack confidence. It means you respect your body which is the temple of God."

Rita: "I really hope this makes a difference to any who read it."

Jerry Kay: "When any of us become consumed with the sexual side of our being, we are not growing, and it causes stagnation in matters of higher purpose.

We all discover our sexuality in childhood, it's part of being human. However, when we don't grow past that phase of our lives it is a form of mental problems and hangups."

Alysia: "Modesty is beautiful because it's respect to yourself, to others who are around you, and to God, for your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit."

"Guard your purity and it will guard you." ~ Lara Landon

Sunday, July 6, 2014

The Beauty of Your Love

The beauty of Your Love
Shines down from above

Your Word feeds my soul
Making my heart whole

The room filled with Your presence
A sweet smelling incense

©Alysia Maria
2014/All Rights Reserved

Saturday, February 22, 2014

My Testimony Of Faith

I'm sure you are wondering, why a picture of a bus in snow? Well, my testimony starts with being at my grandparents house. Here where I live, snow is piled really high at the moment, but thank the Lord for having the sun shine today. At least some snow melted. Haha! As I was reading the book of John in the bible, both my grandma and I notice that a school bus full of children got stuck in the snow bank, as it was turning the neighborhood corner in front of the house. While looking outside, seeing the bus driver trying to get out, I instantly prayed in the name of Jesus and trusted that God could push them out. My grandma and I noticed that the bus driver came out to check the situation and walked back in trying again. As time flew by, there was another bus ready to take all 32 elementary children to school (yes I counted). Then my grandma decided to go out and ask the bus driver if they needed any assistance. While watching, my grandma came back in, telling me that there will be toe-trucks to help get the bus unstuck. I told her to have faith, that God will push the bus out before the toe-trucks come. That all things are possible with God. Moments later, the bus made it out before any toe-trucks came.

As you can see, when you stand firm and steadfast in faith with the Lord, you can move mountains cause all things are possible with God.

"have trust as tiny as a mustard seed, you will be able to say to this mountain, `Move from here to there!' and it will move; indeed, nothing will be impossible for you!" Matthew 17:20 CJB

"Jesus looked at them and said, "With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26 NIV

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding." Proverbs 3:5 NIV

Monday, January 27, 2014

Trust In Him♥


In all things trust in the Lord with all your heart.
He created you, a perfect work of art.
His love is true.
He loves you.
It is everlasting!

©Alysia Maria
2014/All Rights Reserved